My Favourite song

Today, I would like to talk about favourite song.
Hmm..... favourite song. Well, I have many favourite songs and it usually change with my mood. But right now, I would say my favourite song is A Shoulder to Cry One by Tommy Page. It's a nice and slow emoish song which has a good melody. Some emo songs a pretty mellow but this one is soft but isn't to mellow at the same time.

I fall in love again, I guess (",)


Lyrics....
Life is full of lots of up and downs,
And the distance feels further when you're headed for the ground,
And there is nothing more painful than
to let you're feelings takeyou down,

It's so hard to know the way you feel inside,
When there's many thoughts and feelings that you hide,
But you might feel better if you let me walk with you
by your side,

And when you need a shoulder to cry on,
When you need a friend to rely on,
When the whole world is gone,
You won't be alone, cause I'll be there,

I'll be your shoulder to cry on,I'll be there,
I'll be a friend to rely on,
When the whole world is gone,you won't be alone,
cause I'll be there.

All of the times when everything is wrong
And you're feeling like
There's no use going onYou can't give it up
I hope you work it out and carry on
Side by side, With you till the end
I'll always be the one to firmly hold your hand
no matter what is said or done
our love will always continue on

Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on
everyone needs a friend to rely on
When the whole world is gone
you won't be alone cause
I'll be there
I'll be your shoulder to cry on
I'll be there
I'll be the one you rely on
when the whole world's gone
you won't be alone
cause I'll be there!

And when the whole world is gone
You'll always have my shoulder to cry on....

What friend are for?

Some of the benefits of friendship are well-known; some, however, are concealed within the workings of the system in the world.
We all know that there is a deep need for companionship. Not for nothing is solitary confinement considered to be among the harshest of punishments.
But today, there is any sincere friendship in this world?
I can't deny it. Yes, it is but, how much? 10%? 15% maybe.....

But since the human personality is such that we are all influenced with a natural desire for friendship, why should it be necessary for us to be instructed to make friends. Isn't it a little like telling people not to forget to eat? What wisdom should we use.
Authenticity, friendship is sharing, caring, responsibility and respect to each other. Please do not mention, all these feelings comes when we get married. Bullshit! How come we get married if we do not share or caring at first? Unless it is family arrangement, Yes, it can be an excuse.

On the simplest level, we are being taught that it is not enough to have friends, one must choose for himself the right kind of friend---"a good friend." But the more friends the better. Why? Because, in a sense, there is safety in numbers. By that I do not mean that if somebody tries to jump you in the street, you can call on your friends for help. We are talking about friends here, not a gang (",). I love to have my latest friends today. We always keep in touch to each other. We do gather once or twice a month. We sharing and concern waht happen to all of us. And of course gossip, is major factor for us but we're sharing among us. And all gossip is based on facts! So, it can be clasify as discussion. Hehe... This is we called friend. But for others, they like to be a unpaid reporter and spread all stories to unless people. They got nothing to do I guess.

But, I do have various type of friends. Good friend, best friend, sucks friend, fucking friend, actors/actresses friend,backstabber friend and etc. You might think, why I need all those friends? For me, I am a human. Do you?!


Performed with Dionne Warwick, Gladys Knight and Stevie Wonder

And I never thought I'd feel this way
And as far as I'm concerned
I'm glad I got the chance to say
That I do believe I love you

And if I should ever go away
Well then close your eyes and try
To feel the way we do today
And then if you can remember

Keep smiling, keep shining
Knowing you can always count on me, for sure
That's what friends are for
For good times and bad times
I'll be on your side forever more
That's what friends are for

Well you came in loving me
And now there's so much more I see
And so by the way I thank you

Oh and then for the times when we're apart
Well then close your eyes and know
The words are coming from my heart
And then if you can remember

Why do many straight people hate gay

Most straight men I met and mingle who hate/dislike gay men feel that way because they are afraid they, themselves, might be gay since it's perfectly normal to have sexual thoughts and feelings about the same sex, but they've been raised to believe it's wrong and should be squelched. They dislike gay men because to them, they are acting 'weak' giving in to those urges.

But in reality, it's themselves they dislike, and their own, misunderstood, attraction to some men.To further complicate matters, many people operate under the mistaken assumption that being gay is all about sex and nothing else. Many people don't understand the same love they feel for their hetero spouse is felt by those who are in gay relationships. So to add to the fear these types of men are sure every gay man within eye shot is lusting after him and planning out how to take him down and rape him. When in reality most gay men are not attracted to straight men and are thinking nothing of the sort.

Thankfully, I no longer have such people in my life. I refuse to associate with anyone who is a racist or homophobe.

It was happen to me before when I was in colleague. Why straight still have a felling like this? Some of them, they hates gay but they "close" with gay. For what? I am not saying I am. But it is happen.

I was thinking these problems that straight guys facing with gays.
1. They have homosexual feelings themselves and don't know how to deal with them.
2. They aren't sure what it means to be a heterosexual man and they feel angry and confused about it.
3. They fear male sexuality in general and the idea of having it directed at them scares them.
4. They are offended because it goes against what they think of as normal and they are the type that can't conceive of a different perspective on normal.

Ask yourself...