Most straight men I met and mingle who hate/dislike gay men feel that way because they are afraid they, themselves, might be gay since it's perfectly normal to have sexual thoughts and feelings about the same sex, but they've been raised to believe it's wrong and should be squelched. They dislike gay men because to them, they are acting 'weak' giving in to those urges.
But in reality, it's themselves they dislike, and their own, misunderstood, attraction to some men.To further complicate matters, many people operate under the mistaken assumption that being gay is all about sex and nothing else. Many people don't understand the same love they feel for their hetero spouse is felt by those who are in gay relationships. So to add to the fear these types of men are sure every gay man within eye shot is lusting after him and planning out how to take him down and rape him. When in reality most gay men are not attracted to straight men and are thinking nothing of the sort.
Thankfully, I no longer have such people in my life. I refuse to associate with anyone who is a racist or homophobe.
It was happen to me before when I was in colleague. Why straight still have a felling like this? Some of them, they hates gay but they "close" with gay. For what? I am not saying I am. But it is happen.
I was thinking these problems that straight guys facing with gays.
1. They have homosexual feelings themselves and don't know how to deal with them.
2. They aren't sure what it means to be a heterosexual man and they feel angry and confused about it.
3. They fear male sexuality in general and the idea of having it directed at them scares them.
4. They are offended because it goes against what they think of as normal and they are the type that can't conceive of a different perspective on normal.
Ask yourself...
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2 comments:
I agree with all the points argued here! ;-)
Yaaaaahhh ... ! Mari kita sontot diaaaaaa ... !!!
Don't la like that. Have to choose la. Wakaka....
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