Friday, September 19, 2008

Stupid & Dumb!


Media Marcomm... How you define this phrase.

According to Wikipedia Mass communication is the term used to describe the academic study of the various means by which individuals and entities relay information through mass media to large segments of the population at the same time. It is usually understood to relate to newspaper & magazine publishing, radio, television & film, as these are used both for disseminating news and for advertising.

If you are involve in this field where it fall under hospitality industry, that person should be aggressive, motivate, creative, customer skills and also good contact. Am I right?

But in this company, all the above methods are not apply at all. As long as you can “bodek”, yes you can survive here until you die! All newcomers & junior staffs at that department are sucks & dumb forever. I hate them. Seriously I hate them plus their manager. As a manager, can't you control or manage all your STUPID friends?

If ex-staffs can call hotel to ask complimentary room, why not to this bunch of people. Are they hobbits or smegol originally? I do not understand what happen in this company. They're too manja. Ex-staffs can do all tasks and take their own initiative to do so. Why they can't?! If you're really fool plus stupid, do not apply for MarComm post! They're only suitable work at farm or toilet. Sumebusuk”. Fakkittt!


I can't deal anymore with people asking idiotic questions that don't even make sense. It's so stupid and it wastes more time than I have. That, and I am sick to death of people trying to sound clever by inserting jargon into every third sentence WHEN THEY DON'T EVEN USE IT CORRECTLY. I could never be a teacher they must be driven half-mad by hopeless cases every day.

I call people stupid only when they express their stupidity openly for everyone to see. In such a case, it seems to me that the person has no problem with everyone else knowing that she is stupid. I don't take particular pleasure in that but sometimes it is necessary.


GOD help me... I cannot stand here with bunch of cows and piggy....daaaa....


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Monday, September 15, 2008

Life is not fair


Today is my boring day....Haiz... why I don't have any mood? I have no idea at all.
As I know, I just come to work for the seek of work. No interest at all and no motivation at all.
I feel that I am black sheep in this unit. Why I said so... I don't have the specific answer but this is what I feel now.

Sometimes, we spend a lot of time lamenting over how unfair life is and how we got the short end of the stick. We can be stuck in this unproductive conversation for days, weeks, months and even years. Sometimes, we are so bothered by unfairness that we start to complain to others about the short end of the stick and what is has done to us. New staff? Are you trying to be hero too? Please! Do didn't know the politics scenario here. I more worst then Malaysian Politics! The sucking sound is deafening and the illusion is created that we are stuck in this very bad place.

What would be the fun in that? If you want to truly live, move pass the pursuit of fairness and opt for the pursuit of fabulous. Fabulous means that you take a bumpy and imperfect ride, but it can be scenic. Every experience is data you need to make new choices, some big and some small, that take you down different paths, roads and canyons. You meet folks along the way that are contributors, supporters, detractors and extractors. Yeah, but this is office specifically, there is lot of personal competitors.

I remember a point in my life where I truly understood how toxic the pursuit of fairness could be. I've always tried to uphold a high standard of ethics and hard, honest work. I really do like almost everything about my job; the good and the bad; the triumphs and the failures. Many days I find that upon awakening, I must remind myself through affirmation - I love my job, I love my job I love my job...but....life is not fair.

I am at a time in my life where I feel I have suffered enough. I have paid for my mistakes; and then some. Just leave me alone and let me live my life in peace. Stop smirking on me. Stop playing games and please let me walk away with some shred of dignity. Life is not fair. I love most things about life, but - many times I catch myself thinking, "why me?"

When I find myself asking, Why ME? -- I remind myself, "YOU - because Life is not fair." Somehow, this is not the answer I want but its not really possible to get your mouth to shut up. I can't walk away from it. I can't pretend not to hear it. I can't stop associating with it. Because if I could, then maybe Life wouldn't be so unfair after all.

Why I still stuck here. The place was okay but the environment are sucks!
Arghhh, God me help me out from here!


Saturday, September 6, 2008

Can guys and girls be “just friends”?

What do you think? Can guys and girls just be a friends?

Some people can pull off opposite sex friendships and some people can’t.
For me, yup, they sure can! First and foremost, people are drawn to each other for a variety of reasons and they aren’t always physical. Some people will come to be very close friends, some will be acquaintances, some may even evolve in to enemies, and yes, some will even become love affairs, but no one thing will ever define which category any given person will fall in to for you.

It isn’t defined by race, religion, social standing, looks, intelligence, athletic abilities, the clothes they wear, the things they own or the way they talk, and it isn’t defined by gender. People grow close for complex reasons and that closeness is made stronger by things like having similar values, common goals and shared experiences in life.

Talking about this, most of my friends are girls. What I can say is, 60% of it are girls. And I can admit it if people talking bad about me such playboy, player or even gay. Who cares! Those people are jealous! Why? Because they don't even know about friendship's meaning. It goes to girls as well. Don't look at negative point of view. We need each other, so why people out there keep think negative. You can have these things with anybody regardless of gender and the fact that they are a person of the opposite sex does not mean that a relationship has to be romantic or even physical in nature. A well-rounded secure person is able to have different relationships with different people and get different things out of the relationship without ever deconstructing that relationship down to a gender based stereotype.

In other words not everything in life is about sexual attraction and to suggest that a friendship between a guy and a girl will always be plagued by sexual tensions is naive, sexist and just plain ridiculous!

Yes, yes, yes, guys and girls can be friends. In fact I would be weary of people who don’t have any meaningful politic friendships with people of the opposite sex. Anybody who is comfortable in their own skin won’t choose friends based on something as superficial and unchangeable as gender. If you fall in love to each other, that is a bonus points. If not, take it easy and just make him/her as your good friend. In life, not everything we wish will come true. We must learn to accept faith or destiny.

Most of people outside said, It’s just wrong. Guys and girls can’t relate to each other, they live such different lives. Guys are all about sports and tricks and keeping it real with their boys. Girls are gossips and backstabbers. I can see why a girl may want to be friends with guys because girls are vicious to each other but guys don’t need girls as their friends. If a girl is in your life she’s either a relative or your girlfriend, there’s no need for them anywhere else. Hahaha

So now, judge yourself!