I hate my boss because....

My boss is a hateful, evil, moronic cowpat -and that's on a good day. I want to order a hit on her but as I'm too scared to go to jail so I'm using this lens to vent my venom instead. Fasten your seatbelts it's going to be bumpy.

I hate my boss because....

I have to hand it to her the woman is an expert in mental torture. Despite having worked in my current job just for 6 months I have never had a good compliments, been given a fix job description and right direction! This allows her to be 'flexible' so for example on Monday training might be part of my job but by next week she may decide that it's not and never has been. If I protest that she assigned me that task she'll deny it. A few weeks later she'll decide that she has in fact assigned me the task and go insane because I haven't done it. If I protest that she told me not to do it she'll deny it. Then the whole cycle will start again.

Sometimes she won't allocate me any work then swan off to the toilet! When I find myself something to do it will be the wrong thing. The best part was, she rejected my appraisal's point as I'm not reach to her expectation! 75% is too much for her and required my superior to redo the appraisal. Can you imagine? I'm so frustrated, demotivated, morale down, weak, much regretted!

But it's not all bad. Sometimes she'll get the notion that I'm a perfect employee and for a brief period I can do no wrong. Then all of a sudden I'm the worst person she's ever had the misfortune to employ.

So you may wonder why I don't raise a grievance against her. Well it's a very small organisation so all complaints etc are investigated by my boss. I could be wrong but I don't hold out much hope of a fair hearing.

You may also wonder why I've stayed for so long. Well for the first 3 months I could do no wrong then all of a sudden everything changed. There is also the fact that I really enjoy my work. It's interesting, fulfilling sometimes challenging but never boring.

Still enough is enough. I decided this year with some regret that I'm off to pastures new. I've been passing round my resume and applying for every job going. Wish me luck!

Switch off please!

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Mission Destroy Mother Earth

First thing I saw on my monitor...what should I call it? Should I swear? or maybe I can continue to destroy mother earth?! But don't just take my word for it. The legendary, one of the first scientists to sound the alarm about global warming way back in the 80's, recently said that the real key to preventing climate change is reducing home energy use. Yeah right! I some meant it! As he says, we can't stop the oil from being burned for transport, since if we don't use it, another country will. But we can certainly stop burning our coal. And the quickest way to reduce coal emissions by 50%, is to reduce our electricity consumption by 50%. Wah...it is so green nature practice.

Thinking about going solar? Solar is indeed now affordable in many cases. We should practice it...My concern about this is that, just like with cars, people are looking for an alternative fuel source so they can continue blissfully using ridiculous amounts of energy. I would prefer that we all first stop using such a ridiculous amount of energy in the first place!

Off the main power! Mission accomplished!

Show Off!

Show off?! Some people show off because they truly believe that they are terrific and wonderful, and they want everyone else to know it too. It will create some positive environment or behavior.

How about this? Some people show off because they are insecure and want people to be impressed by them and think they're special or rich or whatever. Yes, most insecure person like to do this nowadays! This is truly scenario! Colleague of mine, trying to tell the whole world he is good in this and that but poor attitude and PR. How should you scream to other people in front of guests! besides that, there are the people who show off to hide some ugly secret or dirty fact about themselves that they are trying to hide from everyone else, like that they're a child molester or something.

I can understand why people want to be better, people feel by being the best, they are worth something in this world. It's sad that human beings have this way of thinking, but it doesn't have to be this way. If all people just accepted people for who they are, people wouldn't feel the need to show off because they would know who they are, and would feel good just being them. And they wouldn't have to prove anything to anybody besides to themselves.

Moreover, everybody including moral preachers does it to some extent. Everybody loves to be loved, accepted, and ultimately find a mate; to do that people have to demonstrate why they are a more attractive a choice than other people. Whether we're applying for a job or trying to conquer somebody we fancy, we know that the best presented, most confident, and most skilful types are the cats that get the cream. Even those of us that would prefer to be humble realise that if we never sell ourselves, others may not treat us with respect, give us a job, or find us attractive, so we're forced to play the game.

People that look like they're showing off are just not very good at it. With experience people realise that nonchalance is more attractive than trying too hard, but even that could be a form of subtle and disguised showing off!

I hope that the more enlightened people on this site realize that even they probably show off to some level. Why would you buy a Mercedes over a Volvo? Why wear a suit instead of shirt and jeans? In fact, why wear anything (in summer)? Like it or loathe it, it's human nature.

Again...facts! facts! facts!

Why do I pretend to be stupid even though I'm not?

I always ask myself....Why do I pretend to be stupid even though I'm not?

My friends says ... more likely than not, my "stupidity" is just a social reaction, trying to be as invisible as possible. Not a lot of people enjoy being in the spotlight, and with today's society is it easier to blend in than stand out.

On the other hand, acting deliberately stupid could be a method of drawing attention to myself. Perhaps I feel that others don't like me unless I act stupid, or maybe I got ostracized for being a "teacher's pet" or made fun of for being too smart. Trust me, there is most certainly no such thing as being "too smart"!

The best way for me to overcome this is to remind myself constantly, "I am smart". Talk to one of my close friends about the situation. Help him to reinforce mine intelligence. But above all, believe that I am are not stupid and won't be!

Smelly Armpit

As I stepped in of Golden Screen Cinema Pavillion, I was so impressed with the environment of cinema. Sudden, sadly, the pollution came not from a factory or a machine called human!

About 90% of men and 70% of women have these bacteria in their armpit, and women produce a milder odour than men. Most people have trouble smelling their own odour without burying their nose in their own armpit ... probably because your brain filters out smells which are always present.

We do understand, armpit odour is a problem for most adults (whether they admit it or not), and usually gets worse with age. In some people, it can be so mild that deodorants aren't necessary, but in others, it can be so strong as to literally drive people away. Most people have some odour, especially after exercise, and prefer to do something about it.

There has actually been very little study into what happens in your armpit .... most of the research, by the cosmetics industry, has been aimed at preventing the smell from being noticed. This is accomplished in two ways, through the application of either antiperspirants or deodorants.''

Malaysia, not only successful in education and science, but known in standards of personal hygiene as well. It’s not just the men, either. Ladies, cheap perfume - no matter how much you lather on - cannot hide the pungency if you’ve been wearing the same panties for days. A guy wants a woman to smell like a Jasmine flower or a Rose, not a raw, week-old Gurame fish! This is not wet market!

Here lots of antiperspirants and deodorants but choose antifreeze. Antifreeze is extremely hygroscopic, meaning that it tends to attract and "wick" water from everything.

Read research...reserach...research...

Happy Valentines Day!!!

Every February, across the world, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. But who is this mysterious saint and why do we celebrate this holiday? The history of Valentine's Day — and its patron saint — is shrouded in mystery.

But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.

According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl — who may have been his jailor's daughter — who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today.

...Today....all younger, races, religious, and sexes celebrating this Valentine Day. This is to shows their loves until love comes cheap in this Valentine's Day. This Valentine's Day is all about getting back to basics with some old-fashioned romance -- and saving money and energy at the same time. Couples were urged to turn off the lights and use candles instead, share a bath or shower, snuggle under the duvet and have fun with eco-friendly chocolate. hehehe... in Malaysia itself more than 100 couples were caught in Valentine's night at budget hotel and even inn! Not surprise because most of them 70% are Malays. Well...

Guys, Valentine’s Day has come and like every year for the past some years, debate is going on in the country whether to celebrate Valentine’s Day or not. With so little to rejoice and with so little to smile about, why not celebrate one more day? All that crap about Valentine being a Muslim’s enemy or some other sexual stories attached to the occasion and other rumor mongering, why not just reiterate love to each other?

Yes we should love and respect each other 365*24*7, but we need to reiterate our love to each other every now and then, so why waste Valentine’s Day. And we must shed this hypocrisy. When we enjoy Western music, meals, dresses, movies, culture and their technologies, then why not Valentine’s Day?

We should customize and tailor such days to our culture. Yes, we must not copy it as such and we cannot do it. Booze, illicit sex, rendezvous and other Western stereotypes on such occasions are not necessary to enjoy and celebrate.

So on this Valentine, just loosen up, enjoy the life, its too short and too expensive to waste in gloom and doom.

Most important thing is our believe...